Why do I like stripping as a female. My name is Nadia and I have been a female stripper for 7 years now. When I started stripping it was because I couldn’t get enough money from tips bar tending and I had recently broke up with my boyfriend at the time so I had to take on all the payments of the house on my own. I was working a full time job as a dentist assistant and I needed to make extra money on days off to compensate the lack of income from my now ex boyfriend.
The first time I went to see a manager at a strip club in Montreal, he told me to get into the office and closed the door. He said well get naked I have to see what you look like under regular lighting before I agree to hire you as a stripper here. It was a straight forward statement that made me feel uncomfortable. Here I was, having to get naked for this 50 year old man, who in my head just wanted to check me out.
I told him do I have to do this and is it regular procedure. He got a little upset and said listen I don’t have time to joke around, how do you expect to work in a strip club is you can’t get naked in front of one stranger. You will have to do that in front of tons of strangers every night all the time you work. So I did and next thing you know I was stripping on weekends Thursday, Friday and Saturday.
It wasn’t long for me to realize it was a big game and I had to represent myself as this sex goddess who everyone would love to sleep with in order to make an earning. Eventually I started to like it. Every night, I was able to reinvent myself and be the persona I wanted to portrait myself in for the night. One night I could be this super sexy and naughty blond. The next I could be this dark dominatrix woman who submits man to her toes. It was a lot of fun and it got me to become so much more confident in myself as a woman and in my interaction with men.
I became to understood that men love sex and it’s in their nature to seek pleasure and beautiful woman and no mater what I would think of them or do, they are sexual creature in nature and they will always love the look, feel and touch of a beautiful woman married or not. When you can understand that and respect them for the fact that they don’t do it on purpose but are just designed that way from a genetic perception, you then become comfortable with them and it is no longer taboo or something to hate them for.
I provide them a service which they enjoy and in exchange I receive some earnings. The more I was stripping as a female, the more I felt powerful over my life and over men. I used to be a shy girl, and now I was confident, glowing, full of money and everything about my life was easier. Stripping as a female is definitely not for everyone. It requires a certain level of comfort within yourself. Every night you are there compared with other naked girls and you have to fight for men’s attention if you want to earn some money. The money doesn’t come your way just by sitting there(or actually sometimes it does when they are really drunk) but you have to stand out and be at your best. Nights when you don’t make much money and see other girls go, is when your self esteem sometimes dips. It is not the easiest thing to do since you are in constant competition with other beautiful women.
But at the end of the day, being an exotic dancer and stripping as a female as made me a better person in every aspect of my life. I stopped hating woman for being beautiful and actually started having a physical attraction for them, I started to understand men and that made me much better as a female towards them in day to day life about all their sex jokes and desires for naughty pictures and posters on walls and porn. Stripping as a female made me richer than I could ever been on my own working a regular job. It has allowed me a much tastier lifestyle and more free time away from work to be able to relax and enjoy life. If I would be starting all over again, I think I would of started stripping way younger.
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